Welcome! 

Hi there

We are Dan and Renee, a polyamorous couple living in North County San Diego. Like you, we started our journey with lots of questions, concerns, fears, and excitement. 

We made plenty of mistakes and created awkward and painful moments for each other and for our partners. Moments that might have been avoided if we had just had a bit of help, support, guidance and most importantly, friendship!

You can't do this alone! The word 'poly' means many, so go out and meet many and hopefully a few will become significant in your life!

We created this site to help you find events, workshops, and people that can add value, bring love, and increase knowledge of this amazing opportunity.

We know that polyamory is not for everyone and we believe that monogamy is a valid relationship choice. If you are viewing this site from a monogamous viewpoint, we hope that you will shift your lens for a moment and view the world from a wider angle.